"The purposes of a persons heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out. (Proverbs 20:5)".  The believing that we talk so much about as millenials isn’t a bad thing. It is so very important to believe in ourselves. That belief though, entails so much work. It requires getting our hands dirty to dig and plant and patience for the insight to see the next steps.  Both faith and hard work have to happen at the same time. It isn't easy, but we can do it.  

I’m only speaking from my own life experience. I know what it means to give parts of yourself that you are just getting to know. I know what it means to sell something you just created and still can’t explain. I know what it means to do an act of self care and then exploit that very act as a new trend. For many of us it’s things like “Big chops” or “Weight loss”. Maybe it’s “giving birth” or “engagement”. Before we even experience our own self, we give it away and are left un-whole.